Lifting In Arms Factor:
Well, lifting wife in arms by her beloved husband and then taking her from one place to another in home, public place, hotel etc is fairly entertaining and making people happy too much. Housewives feel happy if they see in serials husband lifts his spouse just in case she walks bare feet to a temple to fulfill her wish (for husband's prosperity and good health) to a mythical God and hurts her foot.
Women keep expecting the same thing from their husbands and imagine that could be one day their husbands would lift them in their arms and bring them from a dining area to bedroom or from vegetable market to home just walking and folks are wondering and wondering and saying inside "How come? Is this magic? Oh, she is definitely very lucky." But in fact many husbands in India seem quite reluctant to lift their wives for just about any reason especially after marriage. Exceptions could be there in certain rare cases. When husbands (before marriage) were lovers they need to have lifted their lovers but after they are in a responsibility role they get tired, bored and in some manner don't feel happy to do such things for the obvious reasons. Women complain too with their husbands once they watch serial actors (characters) lifting actresses in their arms. Please have an in depth consider the following conversation between a husband and wife (both middle aged) while watching lifting in arms scene in TV serial:-
The husband is busy taking care of his laptop and simultaneously watching TV serial with his wife to make her happy. He's least interested in television serials but sometimes he agrees to fulfill his wife's wish. It is 8pm. Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Watch Online Husband is sitting beside his wife just to listen to her just in case she passes any comment about any character's behavior etc. The wife moved totally into her favorite serial. A couple of minutes later, every one of a sudden, she starts clapping her hands; the husband is startled, he talks about her with wonder and then moves his eyes to the television screen. He asks his wife with a little curiosity "What happened dear?" The wife is busy in watching the scene. She doesn't hear him. He asks her again "I never saw you so happy. You clapped your hands. I can easily see that there isn't any cricket match going on as of this time. Could you please tell me what made you clapped suddenly?" Now the wife talks about her husband with some anger inside and says "You won't trust me if I tell you." She mutes the channel because the commercial break comes and keeps the remote in her hand. Husband "Obviously, I will believe you."
Wife "Didn't you watch just how Geeta's husband lifted her in his arms and took her to the temple? Actually she hurt her foot. And now it's bleeding. So he lifted. So sweet!!! So romantic!!! But what Personally i think honey; she shouldn't have gone bare feet to the temple. What do you think?"
The husband listens to his wife attentively and then asks a concern casually "Who is Geeta, dear?"
"Oh, I'm referring to this character. You know she's my favorite. You appear to almost forget all the best actors."
"Oh, how can I forget that? Only this Geeta I didn't know."
"I wish my husband takes me to the temple just like that. She is so lucky to possess that strong man. I'm feeling so happy you know. Maybe you have taken me like that even once? See just how much her husband loves her. That's the best way to express love. You have never expressed your love like Gaeta's husband. You know, he says I really like you to her almost every day. And just look at yourself."
"Ha Ha!! You know Gaeta's husband is not her real husband so they can say 'I really like you' to her on a regular basis." He takes a pause and then continues "That's only a serial my dear. It's a fiction. Those things aren't real. And just look at you and your weight. Just how can I lift you when you're so heavy?"
"I know, you'd say that. You never care. That's why I watch this serial. They show how other husbands behave with their wives and there's no need to remind me of my weight again and again. I'm trying my best. I stopped eating sweets now."
"Yes, I know for six days you follow those things and on the seventh day you relish." He starts laughing loudly.
"You are able to never understand my feelings. You're so rude and cool." She turns off the TV angrily and goes into one other room. The husband quietly sits down on the sofa with his laptop with a laugh on his face.
From the above conversation one can conclude how men and women from middle class families talk and discuss characters of daily soaps, the way the conversation starts with and ends with, how fiction make a difference people's life indirectly, how women interpret fictional things and conclude about something righteously. Some fictional things can easily raise women's expectations from their husbands.
Lifting in arms factor could be quite a heavy one for family men but if tried hard, could be necessary for family and an inspiration for children.
If most men than women watch lifting in arms scene on TV attentively and when it persuades them to do something than to view, the happiness in women's life would undoubtedly be doubled. And if women become happy by their husband's expressing love differently, many homes in India would certainly be flooded with great happiness.
Replacement factors:
Indian common masses are very emotional. They get mounted on serial characters quickly and get used to begin to see the characters in daily soaps which they see on TV for an extended time. They get shocked when any major character is replaced such as a main character or supporting actress or actor, mother in law, father in law, brother in law etc who play major roles in daily soaps. Sometimes it happens that even after replacement when viewers watch that serial, they keep remembering the old character in mind and assume that she or he is still acting. This happens with many people. Humans take time for just about any change to accept generally speaking when a current character is replaced with a brand new one. They take care to accept the new one. Somehow all these exact things aren't considered by directors and producers who launch them before launching their family dramas on regional TV channels. Replacement of any favorite character upsets the viewers once they get used to that specific character. Read this following assumptive example: A couple gets married with the blessings of elders and starts staying together in a home. Only two of these and 2 years have passed. Husband and wife have quite got used to each others' presence. They shop, eat, drink, fight, share feelings and have some fun together. 1 day each morning, the wife just leaves your house without informing her husband. Once the husband returns back from office, he finds another woman who claims to be his wife, tells him to forget the very first one and convinces him he won't have chance to meet the very first one. What will happen in this case? Natural reaction such situation could be entering shock, sadness, insecurity, depression and confusion. Any sudden change can be pleasant or unpleasant or both. While some men wish to have such surprises some time in their life but used to factor and emotions will come in between. It's this that exactly happens with viewers when replacement of their favorite actors is completed every one of a sudden by a group of TV serials that could be avoided if taken necessary steps for the sake of viewers due to whom they have the ability to show whatever content they would like to to be able to entertain them.
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